Why a virgin may not bleed when deflowered , Girl shares her experience
Since ages, a woman’s virginity has been considered as her esteemed possession. Her virginity has stayed so much in the limelight that the orthodox thinking could even question her dignity. This concept has also hoisted the prevalent myth that a girl must bleed on her wedding night to prove her virginity, blame it on lack of knowledge or traditional beliefs. Well, not true in all the cases as your hymen can break before your sexual contact. There are various health reasons that could be responsible for hymen breakage even before having sex.
Nidhi Kumar (name changed) shares her experience that how even though she was a virgin, she didn’t bleed on her wedding night and what she discovered after that.
I got married in the year 2015 and like any other girl was too scared for this new beginning. The nerve-racking first-night experiences shared by my friends had already frightened me and mere thinking about having sex, that too for the first time, was bringing chills down my spine. Finally, that night arrived.
I was 25 years old when I got married. Hailing from a small city in North India, I was raised in a joint family and both my parents had a government job. Not only on the academic front, I was also an active sports person. I hardly had any interest in relationship, until I met my husband. We met at a sports event and as days passed we fell in love and decided to stay together for the entire life. Well, all went well as our parents agreed to our marriage.