It’s a common thing that sometimes your wild dreams will include someone you never expected, don’t worry, it happens and you are not alone. Sex dreams are a common happening and loaded with lots of inner meanings.
The phenomenon of dream happens while you enter REM(Rapid Eye Movement) mode of your sleep when the brain will be the most activated and creative. Robert Glatter MD says “it turns out that our sleep cycles last about 90 minutes, with REM sleep occupying a greater percentage of that cycle the more we sleep. This explains why we typically remember dreams just as we awaken, which is during longer REM cycles”.
Sexual dreams always don’t represent sexuality, sometimes its a manifestation of your subconscious anxieties and desires. Glatter said that dreaming was a snapshot of your desires, worries, a stream of consciousness-essentially, a mirror of how you were feeling at the present time.
Lauri Quinn Loewenberg, who is a professional dream analyst and author of Dream on It : Unlock Your Dreams, Change Your Life says that dreams are typically a reflection of what you feel you are lacking in your life. So when you see a sex dream, it does not mean you want to do sex with that person but maybe you want something from them, like a quality that you admire. So lets unlock your sex dreams
1.Sex with a Co-worker
Saw yourself having sex with your co-worker? Don’t be excited or panicked, it’s not sex that you want but an admirable trait of that co-worker. It may be the highest amount of sales that he/ she makes, or his/her knowledge of technology, or he/she is boss’s pet.
2.Sex with your boss
At office maybe you hate the boss, but in the dreams, he/she will be in their sexiest demeanour spicing you up. In this case too, its not the ‘sex element’ but his/her “power, authority, management skills, decision making,etc”
3.Sex with a Celebrity
Now, what about the dream in which you are having sex on the beach with the hottest celebrity? Let’s decode, its simple as that. You want to take into your life his/her aspect from the movie to improve your life. Haven’t you ever felt that the particular storyline of a movie is here and there related to your life? Ok, when you follow the thread you will get an idea of that ‘specific’ trait which keeps you attached to the celebrity.
4.Sex with a stranger
Well this kind of dream where you get to do the ‘thing’ with a mystery lover, has got much mystery in itself. This one is the most common of all sex dreams. The mystery lover may be a faceless man or woman, but it’s not the person again! Its the qualities that you want in your real-life lover, his/her embodiment is what you see as a ‘mystery lover’ in your dreams.
For eg, Lowenberg takes the example of a woman who always dreams of having sex with an unknown man. Here what she craves for are the masculine traits that she expects in her real lover, like dominance, ambition or maybe aggressiveness.
5.Sex with an Ex
Life is a continuous journey with different stages, sometimes each stage will have its own crazed relationships. But life moves on, and Ex or Exes are created. So when after years you have broken the relationship, if your sexy ex-comes in the middle of the night in your dreams make you on, is that for a reunion? Absolutely not. It’s just a sign that you need to rekindle the excitement in your intimate life.
Then what if you see an Ex who broke your heart? It’s just an indication that you need some more time to get healed from that breakup.
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