Maintaining a relationship is a long and difficult task. Both people have to be committed to the partnership. When your girlfriend becomes bored with you, your relationship will inevitably wane. Some warning signs are more serious than others.
Here are the important signs of boring:
The Sex Goes
While sex isn’t everything and has its ups and downs, if the two are you are going through a prolonged period of time where you’re not having a whole lot of sex, she might be bored in the bedroom.
No More Date Nights
Do the two of you still go out? Or are there a lot of nights spent just “hanging out?” If the latter, you need to start worrying that she’s bored or quickly getting there. Healthy relationships are active and dynamic ones. The less you two are doing together the faster she’s going to get bored.
She Doesn’t Talk to You Anymore
Some couples aren’t super chatty with each other, so this is a relative concern. The main question is: Is she talking to you less than she used to? Does she seem short and uninterested in even hearing about your day? Is she reticent to share things about hers with you, even when you ask?
She Flirts With Other Guys
This might sting, but ultimately it’s a sign that she’s getting bored and looking elsewhere. If you think she’s a little friendlier with other guys than normal, you’re probably right. So you need to get on top of things and start getting your relationship back together.